But I Don’t Remember Any of What I Learned in School!
“But I Don’t Remember What I Learned in School”: Why You Are Still Qualified to Homeschool
You are qualified to homeschool even if you forget school lessons because effective teaching doesn’t require remembering everything you learned. Studies show adults use only about 37% of their school knowledge. For example, you successfully taught your toddler to use the toilet without recalling every detail of child development. This means you can confidently guide your child’s learning journey.
How Can I Teach Subjects I Don’t Remember?
You can teach subjects you don’t remember by using resources and learning alongside your child. Just like potty training, you didn’t rely on your own toddler memories. Instead, you used books, videos, and advice from others. For example, if you’re teaching algebra, online tutorials and math apps can guide both you and your child.
When your child was a toddler and you wanted to potty train them, how did you know what to do? Did you think back to when you yourself were being potty trained? Did you remember the directions your own parents or caregivers had bestowed upon you? Of course not, very few of us remember such a young age, especially not specific details of instructions we were given. So then, if you can’t remember what you were taught in order to become potty trained yourself, how are you qualified to teach it to your child?
For starters, there are so many things in life you know how to do, even if you don’t remember how you learned. Using the toilet is likely one of them. When you think about what you want to teach your children, most likely the skills that you actually use in your adult life that have helped you be successful are pretty high on the list. So rest assured that you will be ready, from experience, to teach many of those skills. Now I know what you’re worried about though… algebra. What happens when you want to teach your child something that you don’t feel confident you can do yourself? Here’s where we get into strategies. When you were ready to teach your child to use the toilet, you probably first taught yourself how to teach your child the skill. In this day and age there is no limit to the information available to us—you can be taught and learn to teach absolutely any skill you choose. You can teach yourself how to teach through any of several methods. Perhaps when you began the potty training journey you got a book on potty training to read, read some parenting blogs, or watched YouTube videos for strategies and ideas. Maybe you asked a friend or family member who had done it before for advice. Maybe you purchased a kids book, movie or TV show for your child to watch that instructed them for you. Most likely, you used a combination of resources!
In the end, you gathered information and ideas from a variety of trusted sources. You considered your family needs and lifestyle, and your child’s uniqueness and what would inspire and motivate them, and then you did what we all do—you tried some things out! And then you looked at what was working and what wasn’t, and you made adjustments. Maybe your first attempts didn’t work for your child. You learned more about how your child learns, or what motivates them, so then you tried something else. Eventually something clicked, and you saw progress.
What’s Most Important When Homeschooling?
The most important aspect of homeschooling is the connection and values you build with your child. While academic skills are crucial, the emotional bond and life skills you impart are lasting. For example, teaching empathy through volunteering can be more impactful than memorizing dates in history. This focus enriches your child’s overall development.
Maybe it clicked easily and you found fast success. Maybe your child struggled with it. Maybe you even thought you were failing at teaching it. We’ve all had both experiences along the way with our children. But at the end of the day, you figured it out. You kept at it, and you kept learning and changing, and you succeeded. When all our children are grown, whether your child was trained at 14 months or 3 and a half, no one knows, and no one cares, because they’ve all learned what they needed to know for success.
Remember as well, that the most important thing, in fact the only thing your child will carry forward with them from the learning experience, is how they felt when you were with them. So the connection you have, the bonds you build as you proceed, and the values you impart to your child, are what’s truly important, as it is, with everything, from potty training to algebra.
For more from Schoolio, see Online Video-Based Homeschool Curriculum Instruction, Why Are Homeschool Programs Not Accredited?, Debunking Homeschool Myths.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need a teaching degree to be qualified to homeschool?
No, you don’t need a teaching degree to homeschool your child. Many parents successfully homeschool by using available resources such as online courses, educational apps, and community support. Your ability to adapt and learn alongside your child is more important than formal qualifications.
How can I ensure my child is learning effectively at home?
To ensure effective learning at home, create a structured schedule that includes a variety of subjects and activities. Use diverse resources like books, videos, and interactive tools. Regularly assess your child’s progress and adjust your approach as needed. Encourage open communication to understand their interests and challenges.